Showing posts with label bipolar. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bipolar. Show all posts

Suffering in Silence

Even though I have a blog that is dedicated to talking about mental illness , today I am going to talk about bipolar.

Catherine Zeta-Jones is on the cover of People Magazine this week and is sharing how she is battling bipolar 2 disorder. Anyone who knows anything about bipolar disorder knows that although there is treatment, bipolar is a horrible disorder to live with.

My article How to stop enabling your adult child was inspired by learning how to cope with my adult daughter's dual diagnosis. Being the parent of a bipolar child, adult or not, sucks. Plain and simple- it is a rollercoaster ride and as a parent, if you allow yourself to get sucked into the emotional ups and downs, you might even think that you yourself may be bipolar.

If you find yourself riding the waves of highs and lows along with your loved one who is bipolar, their dysfunction will become yours. Living with bipolar disorder doesn't mean that your life has to be full of chaos and emotional outbursts.

Education is the key to learning how to cope with bipolar disorder. As a parent of a bipolar child, I sometimes wish she had a different medical condition such as diabetes. To me, it seems simpler to deal with. I am sure that parents of diabetics have their own special and unique challenges. With a mood disorder, there are so many pre-conceived ideas about the hows and whys of it. Unless you live it, you cannot fully understand what it is like.

Drama Queen was also inspired by my dual diagnosis daughter. For me, writing helps to cope with my feelings. I can share what I have learned about mental illnesses and maybe even help another parent or loved one feel that there is hope.

We have ups and downs in our relationship but that is normal. My life is drama and laughter and bipolar only adds to both.

Like Catherine Zeta-Jones, I do not believe that anyone should suffer in silence. Whether you are diagnosed with bipolar or someone you love has bipolar, it is nothing to feel shame about. No one goes through life without some kind of challenge . My "message" today is to get everyone to stop and think before you judge what someone else may be living with. Try to educate yourself instead and feel compassion. We share this world together and understanding can make the ride smoother.

Let's talk about mental illness

Let's talk about mental illness is a new blog I started so that I could focus on something very important to me. Sharing information that I have learned and educating those who know nothing about mental illness means that I am doing something positive. Fighting the stigma against the mentally ill is something that I feel very passionate about.

I am not ashamed and maybe I am just a very brave person but really that is not true. Accepting the things that you cannot change does take courage but what other option is there? Life may be hard at times but it is also quite wonderful. Being blessed with good friends, family and having the opportunity to make a difference is something to be happy about.

Mental illnesses are not always easy to deal with but neither is heart disease, diabetes or other chronic medical conditions. If mental illness is a disease of the brain, the brain is an organ and how is it so different from gallbladder disease or any other organ disorder? Is it because it effects the way someone acts?

What is "normal" anyway? Is anyone bold enough to leave a comment and tell me that they have no issues to deal with? I think not. Everyone has something to overcome or learn to deal with. No one is without fault and no one is perfect. We are all unique human beings. Have compassion for those whose struggles are more than yours. Don't assume that because someone has been diagnosed as being bipolar (for example) that they should be pitied or shunned. Bipolar people still have feelings and they are still productive members of society. Bipolar disorder varies in severity and some people cope better than others. This is true about all people, bipolar or not.